So what is there to say about flirting and loving? Love of course here doesn’t mean the needy concept of “I need you andwant to stay with you forever” but rather it stands for a concept of a positive appreciation kind of attitude that really melts the chick’s hearts.

So when learning how to flirt with a girl you also need to learn to love the girl when you are talking to her. Women are the sh*t at picking up body language and underlying conversational energies and just as well as they can sniff any insecurities in a guy instantly they also sniff out positive energy right away.

Guess which one is better for you.

When you make a conscious effort while flirting to love the girl -
not as a mother loves her child,
not as a married couple love each other,
not as a religious person loves god,
but in the sense of deeply appreciating her beauty and character
she has no chance but to reciprocate if she has any heart at all.

And if not you’ve just done yourself a favor and saved yourself a lot of headaches.

One more thing since I get occasionally asked by people how to do this without the feelings developing into a crush:

Don’t worry about that happening just because you “flirt-love” her the way I described.With a little practice on different girls you can learn pretty easily to keep those feelings strictly apart. It’s simply different kinds of love. And how often have you heard of a mother wanting to marry her child, you see?